EXPERIENCE HEALTHY life and spirituality Beyond high control religion

Trauma-informed Spiritual Direction & Life Coaching support to navigate faith deconstruction, heal from religious trauma, and experience healthy life and spirituality.

YOU'RE NOT DONE YET!

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You may be done with faith as you've known it - but your spiritual, vocational, and life story isn't over.
It's just in transition.

Countless people are experiencing a faith crisis and are no longer comfortable with the beliefs, actions, and hierarchy of their high control religious tradition. They’re either seriously questioning or already know they are DONE with faith as they’ve known it – and ready to explore a new season in their spiritual journey.

Many have left their churches, denominations, and ministries or are trying to figure out how to exit. Sorting out a faith crisis,  deconstruction, evolving spirituality, spiritual abuse, and  religious trauma has a huge impact on life, vocation, and relationships, which can be terrifying and leave them feeling alone and even paralyzed – unsure of who to talk to and what to do next.

ARE YOU A SPIRITUALLY-MINDED PERSON WRESTLING WITH FAITH DECONSTRUCTION WHO FEELS:

You’ve been through too much to stay stuck in lonliness,

stress, and uncertainty.

It’s time to move forward and reclaim the life and spirituality you were meant for and deserve.

YOU’RE NOT DONE YET!

At Not Done Network Coaching, you’ll get the safe and confidential support you need to navigate spiritual, relational, vocational, and life transitions out of high control religion and religious trauma into the new life of spiritual freedom and fulfillment you deserve.

it's time to Transition into life
BEYOND HIGH CONTROL RELIGION!

Spiritual Transitions

SPIRITUAL VISION - THE "WHO/WHY"
Get free from religious wounds and boxes while discovering your true self, why you are here, and deeper connection with the Divine, self, others, and creation you're meant for as you develop a clear vision for this new season of life.

Life Transitions

LIFE PLAN - THE "WHAT"
Get clear on what you desire for your life and relationships so you can make powerful choices that will create freedom, connection, and purpose - all in alignment with who you're becoming and where you're going. YOU get to decide!

Vocational Transitions

NEW VOCATION - THE "HOW"
Make your new spiritual vision of what you can uniquely give to the world a reality! Experience peace, joy, fulfillment, and abundance as you make a stand you believe in doing work you love. Don't let work be a "dirty 4 letter word!"

Eliminate FEAR, CONFUSION, loneliness, AND SHAME. you are free to explore and experience deeper spirituality that brings you peace, joy, abundance, and fulfillment.

You’re not done yet!

What value would you place on gaining:

  • HEALING from wounds inflicted by religious folks, which have drained and prevented you from experiencing life and spirituality to the fullest?
  • PEACE and wholeness with yourself, God, others, and the world around you – no matter the circumstances you find yourself in?
  • FREEDOM to explore life and spirituality – your unique spiritual vision of who you are, what you want to be in the world and experience in life?
  • A POWERFUL MINDSET for developing the beliefs, practices, and decisions that will make your unique spiritual vision for your life a reality?
  • AWARENESS when you’re stuck in the past or worrying about the future, allowing you to connect with the gift and power of the present moment?
  • CURIOSITY that empowers you to discover the next step in your journey that will take you where you want to go?
  • CLARITY on a specific yet unfolding life plan that will guide you as you create the life you deserve and want?
  • FULFILLMENT from a vocation you love while doing work you believe in, which actually makes a difference in the world?
  • ABUNDANCE that provides the resources to pursue the life and opportunities you’ve always desired but previously sacrificed for ministry?
  • SUPPORT & COMMUNITY from a new group of open-minded and non-judgmental people you can belong to, growth with, learn from, and contribute to?

REAL RESULTS FOR REAL PEOPLE

Check out what others are saying about Not Done Network Coaching:

When I met Dave, I was 10 years into the deconstruction of my faith as I had known it. I had grown tired of the process and felt stalled out about finishing the transition. Now, I’ve come to feel more comfortable, authentic and accepting about my current spiritual identity. I better understand how to articulate my core spiritual beliefs, how best to nurture my spirit in life-giving ways and I’ve moved forward in peaceful acceptance of the loss of religion. If you’re going through a deeply disruptive transition of your religious and spiritual identity, Dave has the personal experience, the professional skills, and the loving character to meet you where you’re at and help you discover your next steps… all without a particular religious agenda. He’s safe and committed to supporting people in transition.

Cody Williams – Small Business & Mentor Coach, Former Pastor

Working with Dave gave me the opportunity to explore the places in my life where I was bound by limited beliefs. Through our sessions, I learned to notice and name those beliefs and their power in holding me back as a writer, as a human, and as a follower of Jesus. Coaching helped me to see the truth that I have permission to name what I really want and to move forward with joy in the next step of my career. I’m so grateful for the powerful, meaningful work of Not Done Network Coaching — easily one of the most important investments of my life.

Katie Carper – Writer, Blogger, Life Coach

Dave’s coaching was excellent and exceeded my expectations in that he was able to take the conversation to the next level while listening thoughtfully to my concerns and, quite frankly, confusion. He helped me sort and clarify my thinking. He offered me ways to hear myself and gain a fresh understanding of where I was headed and why. He also has a deep understanding and a lot of experience working with individuals who are asking important questions about their faith. He creates a safe and non-judgmental environment in which to work, and asks thoughtful and critical questions to uncover the answers that are brewing just below the surface.  In working with him, I found peace. I was able to articulate my questions and concerns, be heard and then validated in the process of seeking to make sense of my current uncertainty.

Judy Schenk – Organizational Development Consultant & Publisher

In just one session with Dave, I realized that even after earning multiple degrees, which I have used to minister to others, I never actually developed my own spiritual vision and life plan. No one ever really asks you what you want for yourself and helps you get it. Everything is always in the context of what the ministry or your family needs. Now, as my faith continues to evolve in significant ways, I’m finally working with Dave to help me discover who I truly am and what I want for my own life. What was really amazing was to experience not just how freeing and empowering that is, but how it led to more effective ministry and deeper relationships with my family and friends.

Edwin Arevalo – Hospital/Fire Chaplain, Fire Captain, Former Youth Pastor

Meet Dave

After growing up in the church and serving in “full-time ministry” for over 20 years – I walked away from it all.

Years of questions and concerns about high control religion and the contradictory and harmful beliefs and actions produced by the evangelical worldview left me feeling angry, confused, alone, and unsure of what to do next or who I could safely and confidentially talk to about my faith crisis. Almost all of my family and friends were Evangelicals too. My education, experience, expertise, and income all came from “full time” ministry. The implications of leaving church and the faith I’d always known meant I risked losing my entire social network – as well my livelihood.

That level of faith deconstruction felt like I was done with life as I knew it!

I WAS DONE WITH FAITH AS I'D KNOWN IT - BUT A DEEPER SPIRITUAL JOURNEY WAS ONLY JUST BEGINNING!

Even after choosing to own my shifting faith and let go of evangelicalism, I knew I wasn’t done with God or spirituality. Far from it. In fact – it was just another beginning. 

There’s life after faith deconstruction.

What I’ve found is that I’m not alone. Countless people  are experiencing a faith crisis and leaving their faith traditions and institutions. They feel alone and stuck like I did, unsure of what to do next, who to talk to, or how to make a living doing something they believe in with a new community of people who are open-minded and ready to grow. Many have experienced religious trauma and struggle to find someone to help them through it that can relate to what they’ve been through.

Are you one of those people?

Now, I have the amazing privilege of helping people going through what I have (and more) to navigate their own spiritual, vocational, and life transitions so they too are free to create a new life after faith deconstruction. How’s that sound? Are you ready?

YOU DESERVE THIS!

As a trauma informed and certified coach with decades of experiences helping others find their path to personal, spiritual, and professional growth, you can be confident you’ll get the quality yet personalized care you need.

Let’s talk about it! BOOK A STRATEGY SESSION and let’s see where it goes.

There’s life after faith deconstruction and high control religion.

YOU’RE NOT DONE YET!

Dave Bouffard - Certified Spiritual & Life Coach

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Request a complimentary Strategy Session to learn more about Not Done Network Coaching services and coaching & consulting options.

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Start working with Dave and experience new life and spirituality outside of high control religion!

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Let's co-create your new life after faith deconstruction!

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No matter what you've been through,
there's life beyond high control religion.
YOU'RE NOT DONE YET!